Once the ground has frozen, mulch the bed with a few inches of loose material. The point is not warmth but consistency: it stops the repeated freezing and thawing that breaks roots and pushes bulbs out of the ground. Pull the mulch back in early spring before growth gets going, or leave it if the shoots can come through it easily.
The single most important thing you can do after the flowers fade is leave the foliage alone. Those leaves are feeding the bulb that will flower next year, and cutting them while they are still green takes that away. Let them yellow and die back on their own, then clear them. Deadheading matters for the same reason: a seed head is food being spent somewhere you do not want it.
Feed, if you feed at all, while the foliage is still green. The flower inside the bulb is already formed when you plant it, so feeding then is working on next year's bulb.
Bulbs left in place for several years eventually crowd and lose vigor. When blooms start coming in smaller, lift them after the foliage has died back, separate the good bulbs, and replant them somewhere new.